Does bringing up your feelings or concerns in a relationship leave you feeling like you’re doing something wrong? Maybe you feel like a “bad” partner for expressing dissatisfaction or pointing out imbalances, even when those feelings are valid. If this resonates, you’re not alone—and this pattern of guilt is more common than you might think.

Let’s get real: how often do you ask yourself if you’re truly satisfied with your orgasms? It’s a question many like to avoid. Orgasms aren’t just about physical pleasure—they’re a reflection of connection, emotional presence, and the ability to fully let go. If you’ve ever felt like your orgasms are "fine" but not mind-blowing, or that something’s missing, you’re not alone.

Intimacy is not just about physical closeness; it's about connecting on a deeper emotional level first. In tantric practice, the physical body is a reflection of our emotional and energetic state. When we cultivate emotional warmth and connection before diving into physical intimacy, it enhances not only the experience but also the bond between partners.